to attract good men.” I understand why we believe these things. It makes sense of the success of some women to find husbands, and the failure of others.As Christians (and as humans), we feel very clever when we get to diagnose the cause and cure of singleness. And the answer must forever be, on the basis of Scripture, “May it never be.” Strong women are as vital as strong men to God’s purpose in the church. I can’t speak for Christian men everywhere, but I can speak for myself, and for many of the men in the Bible: Godliness is attractive to both men and women (Proverbs ).To gather this data, researchers had 500 people participate in speed-dating activities where they rated the physical attractiveness and intelligence of the people they were meeting.Every few minutes, they’d be matched with a new “date” and then asked if they would want to meet that person again.
One of the best ways to stop feeling intimidated by beautiful women is to understand that they don’t actually want you to feel that way.
Most of the guys that a beautiful woman meets will feel intimidated by her and try really hard to impress her.