Almost all of the rules – body language, voice tone, etc – about opening come down to communicating that you are a confident, comfortable person completely unintimidated by the beauty in front of you.This brings us to the first key rule of opening, the “three second rule.” That is to say, from the moment you first see a woman you would like to open, you should open her within three seconds.
All the pressure you feel when it comes to opening a new girl lands double on her the moment you open your mouth.The second rule of opening is to open over your shoulder.Obviously, this isn’t always possible, but think about how it feels.That being said, you can improve your chances of opening successfully by understanding a few principles and by following a few simple rules.
First of all, it’s important to know the purpose of an opener.
Now, this rule is honored as often as not in the breach, but the key point is that you do not want her to sit there, waiting for you to open. Now, there are plenty of reasons to violate the three second rule.