Like a good looking guy who can walk up to the hottest girl in the bar and sweet talk his way into her bedroom.
Guys also idolize a player, because not only can he get whatever he wants, he can walk away unscathed, with not a scratch on his heart and the energy to find his next victim.
A player goes in for the kill, to sleep with someone, then either cheats or moves on to the next target, all while not emotionally getting attached, having fun and breaking your heart.
Some guys want to be a player, there is a certain status to being a player.
Obviously, certain questions are appropriate for different phases of a relationship.
You should be willing to answer questions too, just to keep things fair.
It's also fun to ask questions that compare where someone thought they would be at this age to where they actually are now.
You could set this up as a game and ask each other as many "favorites" type questions as possible within an allotted amount of time.
Asking someone what their favorite things are, will give you a lot of information in a short amount of time, and it usually won't feel like you're prying (especially if you are both answering the questions). Before you launch into questions that could potentially have embarrassing answers, gauge how the other person is feeling.
Are they the type of person who's likely to be an open book with their answers and willing to laugh them off with you, or are they more guarded and probably worried about sharing too much?They flew too close to the sun (meaning they loved a girl once that burned them) and instead of loving again, they closed their feelings down and settled for the physical pleasures of a relationship, but firmly closing the down on the emotional pleasure.