In this excerpt, authors Debra Goldstein and Olivia Baniuszewicz write about why sexting while in a relationship can make you fall in love all over again.If you are reading this chapter it means that you have successfully passed through the early stages of flirtexting and into a fabulous committed relationship. Now, just because you have entered into the land of “we” does not mean that you can call up your cell phone provider and cancel your unlimited texting plan.Questions can be less intimidating to text, and you may learn a few things you never knew about him while you're at it!How to say it: You don't have to go nude (you wouldn't want that spread around the internet, would you?For example, you could text him how turned on you are and then text him specifically what you want to do to him.Or, you can ask him for his favorite female body part.
Did you know that what and when you text back will determine where your relationship will go?Women are sexually complex beings and men can use all the help they can get. So, texting him that naughty thing you love that he does will get him excited and ensure a great night for you, too!How to say it: If you are not sure what to text, you can always ask him a suggestive question to get his mind thinking dirty thoughts.How to say it: Many women have a hard time asking for things sexually or even talking directly about what they like in bed.
For men, a woman who owns her sexuality and celebrates her own pleasure is a total turn-on.
A good sexy picture is all about showing a little bit of skin without exposing yourself in a way that you might regret later.